“I get by with a little help from my friends….Do you need
anybody?….Could it be anybody?”
“A Little Help from
My Friends,” The Beatles
Since the advent of no fault divorce, the emotional, legal
and financial complexities of the process have forced the divorce specialist to
become a divorce generalist. This often means that who you know ultimately
determines how well you are able to help clients successfully navigate the
process.
This change has not come without peril. For example, it is
not unusual for the process to be driven by emotion. Emotionally-driven divorces
often lead to prolonged, costly or unworkable outcomes. It is also not unusual
for clients to depend upon their lawyers, mediators or family counselors for financial
advice. Due to a lack of formal training in personal finance, this is an area
fraught with danger, both from the professional’s and the client’s perspective.
Realizing the need for a multifaceted approach, today’s
divorce professionals often train across divorce-related disciplines. It is now
fairly common to see attorney/mediators, mediator/therapists, attorney/financial
planners, accountant/attorneys, financial planner/mediators, etc. It is also
commonplace for divorce professionals to hire “experts” from divorce-related
disciplines to assist them with individual cases. A more recent approach has
been the development of “divorce teams,” who work collaboratively on
individual divorce cases.
Unless you decide to go it totally alone, you will
probably need to identify divorce professionals whose expertise complements
yours. You will need to cultivate relationships with these professionals as
well, since you will probably all need each other’s help some time in the
future. Investing in professional relationship-building can further help you
manage stress (yours and your client’s), increase productivity, achieve
better results and maintain satisfied clients. Satisfied clients lead to
additional work and expanded referrals, important keys to building your
practice.
The Professional side of Divorce Interactive was designed
to help divorce professionals develop their practices. One way to do so is to
use the site to develop and cultivate working relationships with other divorce
professionals. Listed in the Professional & Resource Directory is contact
information for allied divorce professionals, organized by geographical area.
Member directory listings have links to their individual web pages. There you
can learn more about their backgrounds and experience. These web pages also have
links to Members’ e-mail addresses. This makes contacting Members simple. Names
and telephone numbers of other divorce professionals are listed in the Directory
as well.
Another way of using Divorce Interactive to reach out to
other professionals is to publish articles on the Professional side of the site.
For example, the article,